Taking a Break

I know I haven’t really been posting much at all lately, but I’m taking a break from blogging.  A cold has made the rounds through our family (hitting some twice) and Rod is working long hours to prepare for inventory.  Our days consist of school, chores, eating and sleeping.  That’s about it, we haven’t even read Dave Ramsey in weeks.  So, unless we have any announcements to make, we’ll see you in March.

Blast from the Past

Rod recently brought out our old laptop and I’ve enjoyed looking through old photos.  Here are some in no particular order:

Allie, Dylan and Timmy

Allie

Kaitlyn and me, right before we moved to Utah.

Gramma & Grampa meeting Sammy

Sammy

Our first trip to Colorado

Rod and the kids in Colorado

Allie, Dylan, Timmy and Sammy at Garden of the Gods

Allie, Dylan and Timmy on the trampoline while playing in the sprinkler

Our church directory picture for Ridgeview

The kids meeting Sammy

Allie cried the first time she held him

Nana and Pa meeting Sammy

Sweet memories…

2010 Goals Monthly Check-In – January

2010 Goals Monthly Check-In – January

1. To pay off at least 50% of our debt (besides the house).

Although we did not actually pay any extra towards debt we are on tract for paying off half and maybe more this year.

2. To become more disciplined – I’ll be joining different links through the web for accountability.

I have been more busy in January and spent less time on the computer and spent very little time reading for pleasure.  But, I definitely need to work on this more.

3. To make health a priority, for me and my family.

We ate out less than normal and I have tried to make sure we eat complete meals.  The kids and I have had fruit smoothies in the morning and it is so yummy.  I should get up earlier and make one for Rod too.  The kids and I are also trying to exercise more.

4. To live according to our budget.

We did better than before, but still room for improvement.  As of February we are going to cash only for groceries.  We will use the debit card for gas and online banking for everything else.  We worked on a new budget and it is going to be tight.  I’ll share more about that later.

5. To get the kids at grade level for Language Arts and Math.

I worked out a lesson plan through October.  This is our third week and Timmy is excelling.  He has always been very distracted but loves having everything laid out for him.  Everyday he works ahead so that he can have an extra free day.  He wakes up early and goes right into the kitchen to work.  It is an incredible difference.  The other two are procrastinating.  But they all know they have to complete all their work for the week no matter what.  In fact the two oldest have had to do work for seven days straight one week.  This plan will help us stay on target.

6. To finish reading the Bible in September and then start again.

Using ewordtoday.com is helping me a lot.  I’m working through it.

7. Plant a large garden and learn more about organic gardening.

I’ve read more about succession planting and improving the soil naturally.  I’d like to go to a nursery this week and see about planting peas.  Our previous neighbors said that they plant those in January.

8. Learn to sew from patterns.

I haven’t sewed at all last month.

9. Read more books on how to better do my job.

I’m going to start rereading Passionate Housewives, Desperate for God today.  I’ve also been reading blogs on couponing.

10. Start a family game night.

We did not do this in January.  February is going to be swamped for Rod, he has inventory.  Hopefully, we will be able to start in March.

11. Focus on character training with the kids.

We have started a new system where they receive check marks for bad behavior.  Then however many marks they have determines how much their allowance is deducted.  The boys also receive correction from their dad when he comes home according to the amount of checks.  Allie loses ten minutes of computer time for every check.  We are trying to break bad habits that had developed.

12. Find more ways to support and encourage Rod.

I failed miserably in this area for January.  My eyes are focused on me too much and on what I want.  Blah!

13. To have another baby.

Not yet…it’s so hard to wait on God’s timing.

14. Help the children carry out their goals.

Okay, I confess I have forgotten what their goals are.  I need to find the paper I wrote it on and help them.

January was a mixed bag of accomplishments.  I think it was a pretty good start for the year.  Writing these goals on here is helping me to be accountable.  I look forward to seeing what we can do in February.

Best Deals of the Day – Jan 29

Part of our new budget plan is to save as much money as possible.  I’ve been on a quest to find the best deals possible.  Yesterday we used about $60 in coupons.  I thought I’d share here whatever outstanding deals we find.

Here is how you can get Luvs diapers for $3.70 a pack.  There sizes are really limited.  I bought some for the next little one.  Luvs Diaper Deal

Go here for instructions on getting Pillsbury coupons.  Pillsbury Coupons

You can get diapers at Target for $4.86 a pack.  Target Diaper Deal

And you can also request a free emergency preparedness sample kit.  Emergency Kit

Dave Ramsey – Jan 25

The Total Money Makeover

I’m really behind on putting up these posts, so I’m just going to do a brief overview of what we’ve read the last couple of weeks.  Basically, debt is dumb.  ALL DEBT, ALL THE TIME!  Having a mortgage is pretty much the only debt Ramsey ever says is good.  He points out how much income you can free up by not having monthly debt payments, and how much less you would need to live from. 

Chapter Four has been about the “Secrets of the Rich”.  One of the myths was about gold and how people invest in gold because of a fear of the economy collapsing.  I know that we have considered doing this, but Ramsey says that over the last 50 years gold has increased in value by 4.4 percent and that you can earn higher interest in a good mutual fund.  I do not know if that is true now because of the recession or depression or whatever this turns out to be, however one needs to think in long-term. 

Ramsey also discusses groups that say you can work a few hours a week and get rich quickly.  Yep, been there done that.  There isn’t an easy program to make millions.  He says that if you want to have money, you will have to work for it.  It will be hard!  It will not happen overnight! 

Another myth was about life insurance.  Ramsey talked about the difference between term life and whole life.  He says that buying whole life insurance is a horrible investment.  An example was shown of a man who bought a whole life policy of $125,000 for $100 a month.  This same man could have bought a term life policy of the same amount for $7 a month.  Ramsey says that you can invest your money a lot better than with a whole life policy, which we are supposed to get to investments by the end of the book.

Some of the other myths were about the lotto, buying mobile homes, and prepaying funeral or kids’ college expenses.  All are bad ideas according to Ramsey.  He said that the lotto preys off the poor.  Mobile homes lose value at an astonishing rate.  And prepaying for anything puts money in someone elses pocket that you should have working for you.

I think that pretty much gets us caught up besides the More Than Enough book, but we haven’t read as much of that one lately.  There is an amazing amount of information in these books.  I can’t wait until we get to the part where we learn what we should be doing.  We also went over our budget recently and when I thought that cutting up our credit cards was drastic, well I haven’t seen anything yet :) .  It’s about to get crazy here.  Stay tuned for our crazy, extreme total money makeover.

Why? Oh why?

Why is it that when you try to be more disciplined, everything falls apart?  Why is it that when you allow God to control your life then Satan really starts attacking?  We have had a really tough week or so.  I’ve tried to be focused on accomplishing our New Year Goals and just about everything has gone wrong.  But, things are still “better than I deserve”.  Rod has listened to the Dave Ramsey show on podcast.  Whenever a caller asks how he is doing, he always says, “better than I deserve”.  What a great answer!  We deserve death and destruction.  But, God in his amazing love gives us life and a hope for the future.  In the middle of a week full of temptations and attacks when everything feels like it is awful, I can remember that God is with me, that He loves me and pours out his blessings on my life.  This is so much more than I deserve!  

Proverbs 3:11-12 

 My son, do not despise the LORD’s discipline 
 and do not resent his rebuke, because the LORD disciplines those he loves, 
 as a father the son he delights in.  

P.S.  Thanks for the encouragement special friend.  I’ll try to do a Dave Ramsey post today.

He did it!

He did it!  Rod did it!  He cut up ALL of our credit cards!  Today is his late day at work.  This morning we read the Bible and then he read us the Dave Ramsey books.  Afterwards, I was cleaning up the breakfast dishes and I looked over at Rod.  He was standing over the trashcan cutting up his credit cards.  I was in shock and the kids were cheering.  There was a dramatic pause as he cut up his beloved Best Buy card.  I then went and got my cards out of the fire safe and he proceeded to cut those up as well.  I felt physically ill during this process as this has been our back-up.  I knew that if an emergency came up we could put it back on the cards, or if there was a great deal that we didn’t have the cash for now, we could put it on the cards.  The children cheered the whole time.  One thing is for certain, I’m really motivated to get our emergency fund in place now.  Another thing too, this is radically changing our lives!

Dave Ramsey – Jan 12

The Total Money Makeover

We’re still working through the debt myths.  We skipped a few, because they were about co-signing, leasing cars and such.  The one we got the most out of was about car payments.  Ramsey states that having a car payment is “one of the dumbest things people do to destroy their chances of building wealth”.  He says that the average car payment is $464 over sixty-four months.  Then he explains that most people will get a new car as soon as their earlier car is paid for and continue this process for their entire life.  Ramsey wrote that if you were to invest that car payment in an average mutual fund from the age of 25 until 65 that you would have $5,458,854.45!  Yes, that was over FIVE MILLION DOLLARS!!!  Live like no one else, so that later you CAN live like no one else!

The other myth that was informative to us was about getting a credit card to build your credit.  Ramsey thinks that the only debt you will ever need is a mortgage and he says that you can get a loan for a house if you have lived right.  If you have paid your landlord on time, had a job in the same career for two years, have a good down payment, and your payment will not total more than 25% of your take home pay then you will be able to finance a house.

I wish we had read these books when we were first starting out.  I am so thankful that my children will have this knowledge and will be able to make decisions based on what is right, not what everyone else does.  I am also thankful that we are still fairly young and can change our patterns.

More Than Enough

We skipped a bit of this chapter as well since Ramsey was talking about single moms and blended families.  The part we did read was about marketing.  He discussed how the desire for “stuff” has ruined relationships.  He showed how we spend so much time watching TV, playing video games, or whatever instead of helping our family, church members or neighbors.  I know we’ve said we don’t have time for being with people at times, but we do have time for these time wasters.  Now, we are so lonely and desperate for company that is not the case.  I hope we will always keep people a priority and reject the trappings of this world.

Fit as a Farmhand – Jan 12

Fit as a Farmhand

My Goals:

1.  To exercise daily, even if for only 15 minutes.

I only exercised once last week.  We’ve had a lot going on but I need to make this a priority.

2.  To lose ten pounds by the end of the year.

Same weight as last week.

3.  To gradually change our eating habits to more healthy and natural foods.

This week I did not buy any soda to keep in the house.  We did eat out a few times and I had soda then.  My goal for this week is to only drink water and a lot of it.  Jenny had this link which I found interesting. 

I must say that posting all this on here is slightly embarrassing.  But, I think it will hold me accountable to change my health so that I can have the energy I need to carry out the tasks God has put before me.

Eat From the Pantry Challenge – Jan 11

Eat From the Pantry Challenge

I have about $20 left for our grocery budget for the month.  I think we’ll be able to make it.  We did eat out a few times last week.  This week, I want us to not eat out.  Here is our menu for the week:

Breakfasts:

1.  Eggs and Toast

2.  Biscuits and Gravy

3.  Oatmeal

4.  Chili Relleno Breakfast Casserole

5.  Easy Breakfast Casserole

6.  Waffles

7.  Homemade Donuts

Dinners:

1.  Fried Chicken, mac & cheese, veggies and cornbread

2.  Spaghetti

3.  Dinner at the Pastor’s house

4.  Italian Casserole

5.  Sticky Chicken, rice, veggies and rolls

6.  Chicken Enchiladas, beans, veggies

7.  Chicken Tortilla Soup and rolls

Lunches will be leftovers.